Zues, I am at your 6 month mark and I am 10 months in! I admire you so much, and your posts are so extremely helpful. Please write a book. You could help so many people. Also I took your advice in family therapy this morning, worked on phrasing my concerns in a way that respected H, in a very genuine and sincere way using my own words, and I believe it helped a lot. If nothing else, it is good for me to practice kind and compassionate communication.

I wish you the very best New Years Zues, I wish I knew you in person, but then again if I did, I probably wouldn't "know" you as well as I do online. Thank you for being a DB friend Zues.


BD 2/15
separation 1/16
formerly Pho or Fo