Hi Tfish- I know you have been under the weather. I hope you are feeling better. If you are, channel that energy elsewhere. Maybe walk/run on your treadmill if you now have it or step out for a walk.

I cannot emphasize enough how important physical activity is throughout all this. It occupies and tires your mind and body.

Get busy!

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced