H text me while he was at work at 01:30 to say he was still at work so might not be round to see kids in morning as promised. He was supposed to finish at 23:00. I replied because I was still up - always am since BD - and said, "OK, you must be very busy." He replied to say yes he was very busy.
This morning he did actually come round for 1/2 hour before he was due back at work. The kids barely spoke to him - too busy with their Christmas toys/games. He told me he didn't mean to wake me up last night with is text. I told him he didn't wake me.
I was preparing dessert for my New Years Eve meal tonight so wasn't in the same room as him and kids. When he went to leave he told me that he had told the kids he'll ring them later. I just nodded and he left. Then I burst into tears. I really find it hard to take, him being so matter of fact and cold with me. Only a week before he left he was hugging and kissing at the bonfire party we went to and now he can hardly bear to talk to me.
