In fact, my taking care of myself (gym regularly, etc) tends to get ...attention. Yeah, I like it but I'm not seeking it.
That's created some interesting reactions from him.

Sorry about that above - don't know how to quote well...
In front of the girls we kinda make it work. Mostly. The frustrating thing is, we make a lot of things work well. Finances, raising the girls, schedules.
It is all so insane.

Last edited by Cadet; 01/04/16 01:08 PM.
Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?