Anc- thank you so much for thinking of me. It was so nice to read your response. I really did take so much joy from seeing the kids have a great time. Also having other people we met on the resort tell me how wonderful my children were. It really is like H is a 17 year old but not even the 17 year old version of himself - it's like his evil alter ego because he was always such a good boy. oW was the one who told him to break into the house. I will remember all the great things about the trip - the excursion into the jungle, the waterfall, dancing with the "natives" , all the games and events the kids participated in, even the challenging walk to dinner after the first afternoon of "all inclusive" drinks. That is one thing about my memory- I really do only remember the good stuff. I think it is a survival mechanism when you come from a large family and have a large family It means a lot to know you are with me here- thanks