Updated/still thinking about next steps

[kyrie]

yeah. FO.2, I did that for months. Last night was extremely intense. I got on here to check what was posted and started to type a few things. He saw that I was typing "to someone" and assumed all kinds of things... we got into so much crap - I threw a lot of stuff at him about what he had done online, etc (with his OW) and how he never showed any repentance, etc.
He'll twist and shape the conversation to putting me on the defensive no matter how much I try to avoid it.

TxHubby, he thinks all I do is demand. When I say I don't want to talk disrespectfully and he starts cursing at me & I walk away, he accuses me of controlling the conversation and not working on things. When I explain there's a difference between not playing into his tantrum and not wanting to talk, he accuses me of only doing things "my way". I'm so sick of it.
He treats me like $hit no matter what I do.

It was really bad last night. He stayed up and drank all night. Sent me nasty texts. Told me he did not care about my feelings (duh, obviously).