Hey, IP. I get it. I've been having the down, hopeless, weak moments and beating myself up over them. As Z said, we need to keep holding on to that DB rope to get through this tunnel. I think everyone mentions that fantasy letter or email. I even told H in a weak moment that we need to schedule a talk...stupid, I know. Don't initiate R talk. Weak moment when I'd been doing ok.
Give him space. He soundslike he is thinking about some things. Let him think. Enjoy your kiddos and appear to him to be happy. I'll try to remember to do the same.
Thanks Ciluzen, I'll try. I wish I could pick H up and shake him like a box of cereal. How can he think this is best for his children? That is what breaks my heart the most.
