Ancaire, I'm sorry that things have gone this way for you. I am, however, glad to see that you are finding yourself again. There is a silver lining. I too don't understand how my W could think that this was best for our family. Why do I want to R with her if that is the case? I just feel that she is a very confused soul at this point, and hope she can find herself as well.
Inpain, I love the chasing shadows quote. I fear that it sums up most of us and our WAS.
Let's look forward to 2016. The worst is behind us. It will be an uphill climb, but the view will get better with each step we take!
I wish I could give you a hug, big sis. Hoping you have a great day!
35 3 boys Not my circus, not my monkeys anymore....