Struggling

[Imlucky]

Hi NYgal
I've been following your thread I like the bit about having fun it's easy to have fun with some one new they don't have any responsibilies or history to drag them down

You know things like repairs bills car accidents sickness renovations debt I could be the life of the party to with out all the commitments

It's like they are in Disneyland or denial about how things work


Just like you I'm looking at some meetup to meet new people and maybe work on my shyness in new social settings

My counsellor keeps telling me I'm learning and growing and that I have a lot of positives I just need to start believing in myself like when we first started dating