A year ago at this time my partner and I had just come back from Hawaii. And we went again this summer to celebrate her birthday. It seems like so much of the year was celebrating her big 60. Until she decided to start celebrating with someone else. I too thought we could get better this year, but I guess I didn't realize what was really going on. It's hard to know, when your partner stuffs her feelings, it just feels so unfair. I had no idea there was even a possibility that someone else could come along and get between us. Three days before I found out, I told a friend that we were having some problems. She asked, could there be someone else? I said no, absolutely not. Turns out, I was wrong. I was wrong about so much. We have had almost no contact in 10 days. I want to text, I want to call, I want to do something. I don't even know what stage of DBing I'm in. Confused. Sorry to vent on your post, it's just that it's the middle of the night and I can't sleep. I'm glad 2015 is almost over too. A year to forget.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat