Moving Ahead - In the UK - Huddy (pt16)

[Huddy]

W calls me twice yesterday. Nothing that couldn't have waited until she came to pick the kids up at teatime. Kinda bizarre really; I have disconnected and am living as if I am totally single and with no dependency on W to look after me, but now that we are apart, W has started to act as if she can't do without speaking to me for a day.

I really don't understand the mindset here. I thought, if you walked away, you kept walking, but it seems, as the theory is spelled out, and as sandi2 keeps telling all newbies, as you stop running after them, they become curious about what you're up to and want to be back together. W has asked if we can go to the cycle shop on Saturday together to pick our D's birthday present up. OK, no problem there, but she then plots out how she thinks I should plan my days for the next three days. I had to say no and that I would accomodate what she wants as far as possible.