The woman that I talked to did go back to her husband. My twife was all alone on Christmas. Her mother went to visit her son and my wife told my daughter that she laid on the couch and watched soap operas all day. Cried to my 17d and said it means so much to me that you called me. My wife will text me about things that I don't think should be important to her anymore. She out of the blue asked me if my daughters speeding ticket was ever resolved and was the insurance gonna go up. Why does she care about the insurance, I pay that. I text her on a friday and told her that I turned in vehicle tags to DMV and then on Tuesday she texts and asked if I turned in tags. My pastor told me to give her one or two word answers because she wants to be a part of our life and do not allow it because she wants to control what we are doing. She has only been gone a month. I know its gonna take awhile. She is missing my daughter's senior year and my daughter is holding that against her.