Bright, your post got me. The stings, over and over again, we all seem to get them. It seems to go in hand with standing. If we had decided to give up and file right in the beginning, we would have moved on by now. Instead, we live with the hope that we are not doing this for nothing! It certainly isn't the easy route.
I suppose the lessons we learn through this experience are the real goal. That and knowing we have done everything we could. I am sorry for the hurt and hope you are feeling better.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-