What do you do in this sitch? He has no desire to change - only for me to change. I've made every effort and it is sooner or later met with vitriol and hate thrown in my face that I never change. It's brought me to the point of just plain quitting - either in-house separatation or more. I have a feeling that's not the right choice...but what to do??? His manipulation and self-centeredness has no end.
For Christmas you bought him presents, he bought himself expensive presents and got you nothing? Are you kidding me? He's a total ass. Don't allow yourself to be disrespected like that. Please demand better treatment. Nobody ever respects a doormat. He'll just keep treating you like sh!t. Be strong.
