Overall I think you're doing very well. GAL and continue to realize your self-worth. If you feel worthless about yourself then she will see you as worthless. Who wants a worthless person? If you build up your self-worth (which you have a lot) then you give off an essence of confidence in yourself and that makes you very attractive. Your team is a great team but there are standards if she wants to be part of it. Rule 1, no OM's. As long as that rule is being broken then she can't be on your team. You continue to detach, GAL, and move on. Great job, you should be happy and proud of your progress.