Just remember that every WAS thought the same thing about the LBS's on this forum but amazing changes happened. The idea with DB is to change yourself first.
I like the idea of more time and taking it slow. Trust no conclusions.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15