Sandi and 25yrs I tried to answer your questions in the order that they came in there was a cross post when I was answering one and I had not had a chance to read the other one

I am having IC one session a week something needs to change but I really do not know how I am going to do this.

I have to either

A) tell her I want to sell the house
B) move out
C) please can anyone suggest some other options for me

I am happy when I am seeing the children but I struggle so much knowing I have lost my wife

Thank you for the support it is 1 am here in the UK I cannot sleep I have to go out for a drive to clear my mind




C)


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.