Thank you, all of you. So when he comes and wants to talk, what do I do?
I had decided that I was (again) going to state clearly I'd like to talk, do care about him but will not accept attacks.
In the past he's turned that back to "then it is on your terms and that's why you never change" blah blah blah.
What then?

(and, baby eating??)

Last edited by kyrie; 12/31/15 12:52 AM.
Me: 42, H: 38
Married: 12 years (second M for me)
14D, 9D
2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC

At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?