Honestly, I know my process maybe isn't what is recommended or whatever... but, it's mine. It's been stops and starts and letting go and picking up the rope, dropping it, stomping on it, setting it on fire, repairing it, duct taping it back together, dropping it again and whatever... But, I'm still moving forward and grasping the reality as it is today.
Heather, I know what you are saying. I’ve been through a couple the same “exercises” myself. My friends and family just shake their head watching me going through this, but I keep telling them that it is my process and they cannot just “fix” me by telling me what I need to do.
You are truly doing remarkable job in terms of keep moving on and getting what you want in life. Your Ds can also see this. They are inspired to do well. Look at your D’s 3.75 GPA! Great job!
Wishing you a great 2016!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state