Jon, You are showing as much LD to do houshold stuff as she is LD for sex. I used to get grief about chores and my advice to you is "Remove that source of complaint from the equation and DO THE CHORES". It's easy and you can start today. Do the following. Pick up all dirty clothes you see and put them in the washing machine (approx 30 seconds per day max) - don't run the machine - you will produce pink underware. Load the dishwasher with dirty plates, run it and empty it (approx 5 mins total). Do this every day and I guarantee you will not hear any complaints about chores. If you feel loving and there is a pile of ironing and she is not around, do 3 or 4 items - that's enough (You may even get a purvy kick out of ironing her clothes). I do this stuff and cut the grass. Chores are no longer an issue. SD
