Shoot JB, I didn't mean to indicate that your insight was any less than a vet. I was trying to get some vets' attention and was just trying to shun any responsibility for guiding her as she's in a tough spot. You are the best thing going on the DB boards and have 15 years of baby eating experience for crying out loud, so thank you for taking an interest!
PS- love the comments about seeing so many of the dysfunctional R's work out.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15