I'm sorry Fo, there's no excuse for that response. Plan B is nice but not preferred. As you know, it is very scary to witness your spouse turn completely against you. What you said is true and that's why I think I responded the way I did.
By the way I'm thinking about outside Santa Fe, maybe in the foothills. The weather is really nice, lot's of sun, not to hot, not to cold and no humidity. It's a really nice Plan B but it's B
Me too, my thought process is the same, Mutatio, but I am doubting the sanity of my choice. I hope I didn't offend you.
I think your plans sound really nice, authentic and I know you will be happy if it comes to plan B. In the future, whichever way things fall out, I think you can be very happy, and I wish the best for you.
I am an old tig hand myself and have recently gotten into building kinetic art with old bike parts and broken clock springs. I own a metal fabrication business and we have a cnc plasma cutter. We have made all sorts of art since the oil prices have been in the crapper.
M: 39 W:38 D: 11 S: 7 T: 18 M:13 I suspect problem: 8/15 ILYB: 9/15 Never quit on love I ask her to leave:10/15
I'm sorry Fo, there's no excuse for that response. Plan B is nice but not preferred. As you know, it is very scary to witness your spouse turn completely against you. What you said is true and that's why I think I responded the way I did.
By the way I'm thinking about outside Santa Fe, maybe in the foothills. The weather is really nice, lot's of sun, not to hot, not to cold and no humidity. It's a really nice Plan B but it's B
We were posting at the same time, M. It's ok, no offense. I visited Santa Fe, it was beautiful. I understand you perfectly. We are in the same mindset, but I always feel like I am one big step behind you. Peace to you, this is not easy.
Mutatio, she is still here, leaving tomorrow, but my niece was sick and feverish all day and now she is throwing up and I wonder if its just a matter of a day or two before we all catch it. The kids have been playing very closely together for several days now, so whatever germs one has, the others are sure to have as well. Keeping my fingers crossed that it doesn't spread. I just sprayed every doorknob, remote, etc with lysol.
Also things are pretty intense with H these last few days. My d is trying her best to get him into a fight, she is really pushing things. It is pretty obvious that she wants H out of here, and she is sucking up to me, pure manipulation. Lots of tension here. My sister is witnessing a lot between H and me, H and d, d and me, all around yuck and dysfunction. The boys just go on as though nothing is happening, they are a constant joy. Between my 2 sons and 2 nephews there is plenty of laughter and hilarious kid stuff going on, thank God for these boys.
My stress level is through the roof. Trying to be ok. In laws come in on Friday.
My sister took her to the clinic, she has strep and started antibiotics tonight. Hopefully she might feel a little better in the morning. I'd love for them to stay an extra day or three. Now I am feeling it and so is my son, might be heading to the dr. tomorrow.
I just had a big cup of herbal tea and I am going to bed.
Much love to all my DB friends, this week sure has been rough. Looking forward to chatting with you all in the new year, I think the change of calendar will be good for a lot of us.
Catching strep in the last day of 2015, wow. Just when you thought you were done with 2015, doctors and antibiotics. I think I got you beat, I am going to a funeral tomorrow morning. I end 2015 down one friend.
