So, I was able to offer some help to one of my colleagues at my part-time job.
But the conversation turned a very unexpected route, and in the end, he may be the one helping *me* out: I may have the chance of working abroad for a month or so at some point in the next year.
After our quick chat I got in touch with someone I know (in my H's industry) about this. I've worked for her in the past, she has a high opinion of my work but has always thought I should push myself more. She also has the connections to help me out.
And (get this...) she thinks it's a great idea!
I think I'm going to speak to her some time after the new year about it.
My part time job is zero hours, so I could easily go away for a month and then come back to it.
I feel pretty darn excited about this. I never got the chance to travel when I was in my 20s. I went from an undergraduate degree, straight into a six year postgrad (during which I worked the whole time), then straight into getting married and looking after my H.
It's going on my homework storyboard that my counsellor set me
I am not familiar with your circumstance but this opportunity seems like a perfect thing for professional and personal growth. Is the location some where warm with tropical drinks?
So I answered my H's Christmas eve text asking me how I was etc., a few days later, on the 28 December. I told him I was doing 'really great, thanks' and that was it. Nothing further from him, but I guess it's early days yet.
I'm at the point where I'm not sure what I want any more.
I'm definitely not attracted to the person that my H has become over the past 5 years. I definitely don't want my old R and M back. And I'm not missing him or our R/M either.
I feel like I've travelled way too far along the road away from all of that to ever even want to go back now. That all seems kinda lost in the mists.
I know I'm definitely not interested in being his friend while he pursues another R with another woman
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Focus22 I am so sorry I understanding what you are feeling. I don't know what to say to help you but I wanted to let you know that I have felt the same way when family tells me to move on or just that they seem to think it is acceptable that there is a new girlfriend
