Inpain when H comes round I take our dog out and don't stay in the same room as him when I come back.
I wait about 2 hours to reply to his texts or phone calls. It doesn't make any difference as now H completely blanks me when he comes around.
I don't initiate conversation with him and only speak about kids when needed. I can see H is completely gone and won't come back. I'm getting the same treatment as his first partner! That's what hurts the most because I'm nothing like her and he has put both of us on the same level