Trumpet here. I'm the king of 'no pressure, take all the time you want', and then a day later I'm forcing a R talk.
I'm truly done talking about 'US' until the W wants to talk about US, and it will be a small conversation at first. Zeus in another thread helped me to understand that I can't go 90% of the way and count it as 'good enough'. No pressure is really letting my W have ALL the space she needs.
I think logically. I go from step A to B to C. I can think on my feet - thus, I'm in sales. It seems my wife 'chunks' the travel from A to B to C, and it isn't at a constant speed or linear travel.
I never realized how much FOG is in a WW. The only way to clear the fog most of the time is time.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
