With 2015 coming to an end, the most challenging road is ahead in 2016. I will be making some very important life changing decisions.

With being in a different country from both WW family and mine, we've had to make many adjustments. We have no family around where we live (all plane ride away). WW has built her new circle around work friends and OM and his family. I just have a few friends here. But S2 is growing up with no family around.

2016 will be a year I have to think about moving back home to be around family and close friends. WW knew our stay here wasn't permanent although she is looking for some way to stay here as she mentioned she wanted to do. I don't believe S2 would be as happy here as he would back home. But I also know worse case we could build a life here. The only thing I know for sure is that I will be living wherever my S2 is and will work to ensure that happens. Whether that is here or back home.. that will be what I will have to reel through. I said I would wait until 2016 to make that call.. well we are pretty much there.

Will enjoy the roll out of 2015 and let my thoughts explore next week on this issue. I'm glad I've given myself time gather how I feel about this. Just such a tough decision and will be a life changing path either way.


M: 33 W: 30
T: 14 M: 9
S2
BD: May/2015 (w moves into spare bedroom one week later)
EA / PA (discovered): June/2015
W moves out (living with OM): Sep/2015