Hi Toots, Just a quickie to say hey and hope your day is going well across the Pond. I sense melancholy in your post- totally understandable and maybe I'm off the mark. It's such a hard time of year. I will offer this: think about what your intentions are for Sotto for 2016. You are setting them whether you know it or not. If you aren't living the vida loca on 12/31, maybe spend a moment with yourself to acknowledge how far you've come, then decide what it is you most want to focus on completely separate from relationship w/H in 2016 ... maybe write it down. Tuck it away. Then just have a toast to the awesomeness that is YOU! {{{hugs}}} xoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
