WW is onboard with trying to save the M

[trumpet]

Sounds like you got a month.

Don't be trumpet, and ask about the R 2 days from now.
And don't ask after 30 days, at 7AM in the morning... that would also be a trumpet thing.

As Cadet says, you just got a huge gift. The gift of time. How are you going to use it?

I was at your point, JGuy, and then backtracked my M by feeling like I needed to express my feelings, and talk about the R with her yet again. The pressure put her in a very bad place, and the D might actually be moving forward.

The sex thing? That's like touching a hot stove. You're gonna get burned. You would think it's fantastic, but if she has no emotional connection with you, the act will come and go, and she'll realize it wasn't like it used to be, and think that might be the nail in the coffin. The mental aspect of sex to her is probably MIA right now. At least she wants you - that's awesome! Sexual attraction is very cool.

I printed out Sandi's rules, and highlighted the ones I'm always messing up on. I read the entire list every morning when I'm on the treadmill. Today was the first day in a while I did't log into her FB/email. I'm going to follow ALL the rules now, and see if I can save things.

You can do this, JGuy. Keep posting, and I'll keep posting. We're in so similar a sitch. If you think you can or you can't, you're right!