LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

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Hi tl2
Thank you for stopping in again.
I did tell her I agreed with what she said about not following through with D4
The back and forth was cordial. I asked her to hold herself to the same standard, she said she has never not followed through, I described 2 circumstances when she didn't follow through, she became defensive and I dropped it.

We do have a child custody agreement filed with the courts and our D is finalized. We have 50/50 split with very specific days and times we are responsible for D4. I stayed away on a night that was her responsibility. She pushed for this D so on nights that are her responsibility I'm allowing her to put on her big girl panties and care for the kids. When it is my turn I take full responsibility and do not ask or expect her to help.

WXW is still living in the house but we are living as D'd because we are. I do not plan to help her. This is her circus and her monkey's. She wanted this and now she gets to live with the consequences of her adult decisions. I will not help her move out. I will not give her extra money or things. I will not be her friend at this time.

The intimacy was strictly physical for me. She is obviously upset by it. I will cut it out.

I am moving on with my life. I am still leaving the door open and will not jump into another serious relationship. I know God is working on her and I'm not going to get in His way. He may call me to reconcile with her and if He does I will. Expectantly waiting on God and staying out of His way