Cali, You and only you will know if it's time to give up or continue as you have been. Don't allow others to sway you on deciding to toss in the towel. They haven't a clue as to what you have been dealing w/and until they walk in your shoes, take what they say w/a grain of salt.
Wishing you and your family a Happy New Year. May 2016 finally bring the answers you are seeking and help your w/finally complete her baking up and waking up to realize what a truly amazing man that she is married to.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
