I'm going to suggest that you go to that thread and re-read it. It has a lot of identifiers that match up w/what's going on w/you and your interactions w/your h.
Not trying to bring you down, but the new year is around the corner and I want to see you be your own success story. Do not allow the behavior of others dictate how you will feel mentally and emotionally.
BTW, you might want to read the thread by LoisB over in the MLC Forum. She's struggled a lot w/a husband that walked out and left her w/two daughters to raise, etc.
