Maybe when you stop all R talk, you can just have fun? Go out to dinner with friends so there are no awkward silences? Maybe a good movie where you don't have to talk much?
We had that awkward silence dinner and it was awful.
I don't really know your situation, Jguy, but it sounds like there's lots of hope. Good luck to you!


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat