So, let's back up to where you responded to my last post. Here is what I was wanting to know:
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Did you ever know what it was about you that she admired? Think about the man you were before M. What were you like back then? And, I really need you to answer this question, please.
Your answer was all about her. The only thing you told me about yourself was that you came from a wealthy family and you showed her love. Were you a teenager when you met her? What type of personality did you have..........introvert or extrovert? What were some of your inner struggles? Did you have any guy friends? Were you well liked in school.......not b/c of your parents money, but for yourself? Were you pretty much given what you wanted, growing up? I know you've said your W is the only sexual partner you've had, but did you ever have a steady girlfriend?
Maybe I am guilty of trying to analyze. I have seen that whenever anyone asks about your changes, you answer with things you are doing or maybe have stopped doing bad habits. I don't recall you changing or improving anything about the inner you. Outward change is good, but it's the mental/spiritual change or growth that will determine your peace and happiness. That is where the real you resides. That is the guy I would like to hear about.
Now some questions about when you first got married. How old were you? How did your parents feel about you marrying this particular girl? Did your parents help you financially? Did you ever feel that you had to give your W material things, in order for her to stay with you?
