We should all pause today and recognize we made it through Christmas. It is such a tough day and we made it to the other side. New Years will be a little hard. Everyone will wish they could wish their S a happy new year. DONT DO IT! No it is not OK. No your sitch is not "different" so it is ok for you. If you say Happy new year and they cant return your enthusiasm, you will push them further away and add months to your waiting.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!