I must admit that the X pretty much went down the priority list after the birth of kid. I wouldn't be surprised that he felt that I loved the dog more than I did him? :p.
Seriously, not really. Not most of the time.
But lesson learnt. Spouse is priority, though kid's needs must be taken into consideration as well.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.