Aye, but there's the rub. Who goes first? If you've chosen to go first, great for you. If he doesn't follow up, you need to remind him. Have him read the Five Love Languages...it was an eye-opener for me. I told my W about it and she is doing a better job of communicating with me, although she is still not speaking my lingo.
I agree with CeMar...you need YOUR love tank filled, too.
