To contact or not to contact that is the question

[JulieH]

Continue to do what works for you. locking doors, going on vacations etc. I know how much You want to rationalize it to husband, but it won't work. He just can't see that right now.m Keep doing what works for you. Be selfish. Personally I feel like if it upsets him and changes the rules of the game it's even better. But that is me looking at it from an outsiders point of you. I know how hard it is when it's your situation.

I am happy that you and family had a great time on the trip. I think in early spring I'm gonna take kids away somewhere too.

We all have set backs regarding what is said to WAS. How could we not. They were our spouses and parents to our children for many years. It will get easier though. Make GAL top priority. Love yourself more then you love him. He doesn't deserve that love right now. It's hard to see, but you have the upper hand in this long term...the kids/finances/your in the right.