Seriously though, do some GAL. Even if you're scared or feel like you're not ready. Do it anyway. Go through the motions if you have to but do something. ... It was when she saw that I could move on just fine without her that made her realize she didn't want to lose me.
That sure sounds like good advice, and it's great hearing that it worked for you. Thanks.
I'm quick to warn that it may not work for everyone. Sometimes a relationship is just over. What I am saying is that it's your best chance at saving it and, if it turns out it can't be saved, then at least you're well on the way to recovery and a great new life. That's why I call it a no-lose scenario.
Edit - Please start a new thread - Cadet
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