Then, I asked her if I could ask her one thing, without any pressure or feeling that she needed to answer me. I asked her, since her Affidavit of Indigence form is all she needed to sign in order to have me served, I simply asked, is it your intent to go ahead and sign it and file for D.
I know it does not feel like it but this is pressure. You are walking a very fine line.
It is good that she is telling you she is hesitant and not a plan B. Remember though, that is what she is saying. WW's will lie, lie, and lie. I know it feels like if you do not have these conversations she will be gone with wind. That is not the case. Let her bring up R talks. You need to stop initiating them.
WW's will say and do anything to "cake eat." It is safer for them. They are scared and their thoughts are all over the place. I really can't stress this enough.--stop the pressure.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."
