Joss - I am so glad you are focusing on yourself and your relationship with the children. It seems like your H is reacting not reflecting on the situation. The best gift you can give yourself is to be completely focused on your life and your happiness in your family. It is hard to accomplish this task on a daily basis but it is truly the only way you can rise above the muck.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou