I was not expecting to be in this state of limbo for so long. I just want stability and organization and a plan to move forward regardless of the outcome.
Brief background... Husband left 6 mos ago. We were living with family at time and fighting a lot. He says there is no other woman and I have no proof of one. He initially said he wanted space, then said he could not reconcile so I started to move on and filed for CS and then a month ago he told me he would like to try marriage counseling and dating to see if we could work torwards reconciliation. I am suspicious of timing, and he still has not initiated. I will not initiate reconciliation because feel I did my fair share of all the DB donts in the beginning and I have no intention of doing so again. Now I feel it's on him...but still nothing.
Thank you all for your much needed support and wisdom in these very trying times. These boards have kept me occupied and I know I would have made some very unwise choices if it had not been for you guys. Thank you all for sharing your experiences as well. I have learned so much.
It sounds like you got this. Good for you. Stay the course.
