Looking forward to the new year

[Imlucky]

I dont know who is worse off or if it even matters

I see everyone here has chosen to be committed to a their marraige and are getting counselling, reading, coaching and rediscovering themselves.
Eventually we will have an answer about where we are going, im not giving up on my marriage but im not going to fight a divorce if she chooses, im not going to remain in this state forever

Ive learnt a lot here and cant wait for my DR book to arrive from the U.S,there are a lot of wise people here who are sharing their experiences and knowledge

I think everyone here is growing and becoming a person that if not kept are going to bring a lot of positives into the next relationship