Here again after 9 years and struggling

[melweb]

Great advice here tl2. I am in the same boat. New city= no friends or family. No money= well, no money.

I have been to the library a few times, and started church a month or so ago.
The library has a book club, that I am going to join, and the church has a Divorce Care support group. I am not technically either of those, but I don't think they will ban me.

Also, when kids were little, we went to a lot of playgrounds. Those things are free.