Mel, you should find a new years party to go to if that's what you would like. You need some GAL activities where you have a lot of fun without him. Don't bother letting him know until your plans are close. If he gets upset just act matter of fact about it. See if there are new years eve meet-ups in your area. Find an event that looks like fun. Sitting home and sulking while he parties feeds his ego. Don't do that. You have worth. I've read your words and I can promise you that you're worth better than this treatment. He will keep it up until you realize your worth and do something about it. I know it's hard. I really do but you can do it. Be brave.
