I think it is a good idea to honor her wish for time. I pressured my WW and then confronted her on the PA. The next day D papers were filed. She needs to feel the decision is hers and she is free to make her own choice regarding the M. The nature of humans is to defy/resist any pressure even if it is for her own good. Her instincts will have her go the other way. I am sure your coach will help with explaining this better than me.

You have a good head on your shoulders. Trust DB, not you instincts and emotions. Fill us in on how the coaching goes.


Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs
EA: Started 3/2015
MC Started: 4/2015
She moved out and served 6/2015
PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015
2 young kids

"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."