Time to make changes

[peacetoday]

I like KML roadmap

I think you will know if he is serious or he just wants to keep his foot in the door
It will take a lot for him to really turn his life around at this point
I think there a a rare few who will go to any lengths to get x back
but halfway measures may not get you a committed R and may bring you back to where you just left

as you said, you are not interested in just being friends…so your will be able to figure it out fairly quickly