LBH w/ a WXW after the D - now what

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thank you Sandi,
this is how I planned to play it. The bedroom cake eating was for my benefit too but I know if I completely cut it out she'll assume I'm getting my "cake" somewhere else. I also know the more I pull away from her the more she'll want me. I guess I don't look at this as being manipulative bc whether she fully returns or not my actions today are about me moving on. I'm not holding onto hope that she'll return because I don't want the woman she is today anyway. I'd rather start over with someone new then jump back into the M I had.

Thank you for all you do here. You are a great confidence builder.