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[Mona52]

hey mona, keep those outfits and wear them like you mean it.
I can tell you something that you may not believe...when a woman wears something that accentuates a given body part, it is SEXY.

Men don't have to be an a$$ man to like an out fit that shows off her butt, or legs, shoulders, neck...boobs, whatever.

Sexy is about your attitude, the way you carry yourself, not showing inhibition or insecurity. The dress / outfit is merely a tool.

hell, wear one of those outfits at your next singles outing where butt-head shows up to give him a glance at what he is missing

Heck yes I will be wearing these outfits to the singles dance and heck yeah I will rub it in a little. See, when he called me yesterday he kept saying things like "I cant believe how understanding you are, most women would be very upset right now." I did not get mad at him in the slightest for his poor behavior. Because at the beginning I said no strings. I meant it. The funny part is the less I got mad, the more he apologized and kept saying what a jerk he was to do that, LOL

I am very very thankful for him. He got me over a huge hurdle. Obviously I cant say more, but I can look in a mirror and feel like Miss America now. And now that I think it, the men think it too. At these singles dances there is a part called the Paul Jones whatever. The guys make a circle in the middle and the girls on the outside. the play part of a fast song and we all move in a circle in the opposite directions, the music stops and the guys grab the nearest girl.

Then they play part of a slow song to dance to. Last dance, the guys would like rush to me. More than one said "I cant believe I got to you first!" Now, they could be saying that to all the girls. But I dont care. It feels good and makes me laugh and smile even more. The more I laugh and smile, the more guys come closer. The one guy even tried to cut in on another and I had to say I was already dancing, sorry.

That has been my biggest lesson. Laugh and smile. I get more compliments on my smile and my eyes than any outfit. My belly, which is the part I hate, is not even an issue when I laugh and smile.