Wow. What a night.
Update here:

So the OM contacted me again. Said he wants to break it off, as he's not willing to give up his family. I told him, if that's what he wanted, then he needed to send a no contact text, and he needed to image it and send it to me as proof of cutting it off.
Confronted WW spouse last night after talking to him and blew the whole lid off the A. She stated that she knew that he had told me that he would not leave his family, and that she had already broken it off. We had a big discussion, including a variety of things. I did a LOT of validating and just letting her vent. She had a lot to say concerning the end of her A, and where this left us. Very fragile time right now. Have a coaching session tomorrow night, and we'll see where this leaves us. My brain is fried right now. WW texted this morning checking on D2, and asked if I could video chat with her so she could see D2. We did for a short while, and then WW told me that she was going to go to sleep for awhile as she was mentally and emotionally exhausted. I know I'm at a very fragile place right now with all of this. Hoping for some uplifting words.


Me:36
W: 27
D2
T10
M:2.5
Filed D 1/14/16
BD: Sep 15
A Discovered: 11/17/15
She moves out 11/19/15