I received a visit from the police today. WW complained that I violated the custody order by asking if she wanted to come over for Christmas Eve and Christmas morning through text message instead of email. She also complained that I sent two biblical quotes to her about two months ago. The officer was nice and said to not do it again for my own sake. I was able to show where she sent me direct texts as well which also violated the order. He said he would use that as evidence in order to write a balance report. Every cop I have dealt with has been super nice and understanding. I'm thankful for that. He asked who my judge was and I told him. He said I lucked out because he is a very fair judge.
My L was not concerned and said I should not be either. I had also sent a message to her employer (so to speak) about the affair. It was not a violation of the order but the cop recommended that I do not do that. My L said she will probably say this is why she is withholding the children from me. She was withholding the kids long before that message so it will likely not matter.
She really is pulling out all the stops. A very angry WW indeed.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."